What
is the American Dream? I think the American Dream is not easily defined. It is
individualistic to each person and may even change over time. The American
Dream is different for a white suburban child, a foreign child, or an African
American urban child. Also these children are filled with the ideology of the
American Dream, but as they pursue this dream their values, interest, and
viewpoints may change. I think one key factor in defining the American Dream is
the word freedom. The freedom to speak how you want, to live how you want, to
do what you want, to pursue your interest is a key concept of the American
Dream and this freedom is different for everyone. For example, a foreigner my
have escaped their country that was under a militaristic rule so that they
could experience the freedom to say what they want without being killed, or to
practice their religion without being persecuted. So for them the American
Dream is the freedom to say and practice religion the way they wish and not
necessarily a money or materialistic dream. Again, for someone else the
American Dream might be the freedom to buy whatever they want. So for this
individual their goals are going to be driven more by money than by an internal
emotional stimuli.
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addition, the American Dream may not be not static for everyone, but it may in
fact evolve as one grows to better understand themselves and their
surroundings. For example, my ideals about the American Dream have changed over
the course of my life. I was brought up and influenced by society that money,
power, and material objects were to be desired. With these influences on my
mind I set out to acquire this version of the dream, because I thought that was
what everyone was supposed to do. So, I picked a degree based on its projected
earnings, and then I chose a college that offered this specific degree, not
because I really had a connection, but more because this school out of the
three in Ohio was in my eyes the lesser of the other evils. While in school I
realized some differences within myself to this outside societal message of the
American Dream, but I still did not have a true understand of my own version of
the American Dream. So I changed my degree slightly but still focused on the
potential earning power and prestige of my future career.
After
college, I pursued jobs with various companies based on the pay, power, and
future ability to move within the organization. As I learned the game of the
real world and evaluated my place in this world compared to my “wants” I sensed
a change in what mattered to me. I began to realize that material objects and power
I was told were the American Dream, really were not my idea of what was
important to me. Of course, being told something all you life you tend to
believe it until you discover the reality for yourself. It took me living this
“other dream” before I woke up and realized my own version of the dream. Even
though I wasted a good portion of my time pursuing a false dream I am not upset
because it provided me with clarity and a wealth of knowledge about what I
value in life. In the end it took these experiences to define my own version of
the American Dream, it took me experiencing the reality of the world versus
hearing tales of how the world “should be.” So I am an example of how the
American Dream was not static and did change over time. So when trying to define something like the
American Dream, which is unique and even subject to change it becomes
challenging to place the definition into a neat package for each person. I
guess that is what is so wonderful and amazing about living in America, each
person has the “freedom” if they have the desire to reach for their own version
of the American Dream, and no two dreams are exactly alike just like no two people
are exactly alike.
Hi Chad, These are really wonderful blog posts. They demonstrate that you are reading carefully and really thinking about the themes in the story. This posting about the American Dream is my favorite of the posts so far because I know you gave up a lot of material security to follow YOUR dream. I so admire you for that. Thank you for sharing that with the rest of the world. It is very inspiring.
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